Our life needs more discipline ...

Chanakya said ," Its better to have a bird in hand than two in bush." In our context running behind someone who has recently been shadowing your mind , at the cost of someone who has stood by you in your darkest of times is a signature of you being a dumbly rated mind. We should never take anyone for granted just because they have been there all this while. Its very important that we know and show gratitude to every person who has added to our life, because every experience is a lesson in its own.
I have seen many relationships being at question because of greed of finding a better person. And overtime I have came to this conclusion that this greed is just a habit. Once you build a habit of having fun with people ( I hope you get the context I am talking about) , its very very difficult to come out of it. I have personally repeated this mistake again and again , and today I can say , its all momentary . A moment which can keep everything you had at stake. One needs to be disciplined when it comes to all this, beyond a point trust me , all you be left would be regret. It would have taken pained you a little to be disciplined. But trust me friends the pain of discipline weighs in grams, and the pain of regret weighs in tonnes. You choose , pain in grams/pain in tonnes.
No one is perfect. The qualities you have in a person may not be present in the current crush of yours. You may have new ones which you like better now. So give it a thought. A thought why did you hold back till now... Practice discipline !!

The very motive...

This blog of mine has a motive, where I'd like to post the biggest of mistakes which I have done which have kind f directly or indirectly impacted my life to an extent where I can say ,it leads me to a situation of "Paradise Lost". This blog will keep you posted about the darker side of me , which I am sure every individual has - the fact that he/she realizes it sooner or later is what that matters. All we individuals are invited by "desires" which I believe is the key root to all the problem we face. The kind of control you keep on your desires directly shows its shades on your paradise. The more you set them free, the more you tend to move away from your paradise. So friends give me ears . I really want myself to be heard. I am lost . Lost in these worldly desires. I want to get rid of them , serve the world with all the lessons I have learn't in due course...